Reclaiming Sexy: Miss M’s Journey to Feeling Hot in Her Own Skin

There’s a certain magic that happens when someone decides to take up space unapologetically. When they stop shrinking. When they look into the mirror—not to find flaws, but to find freedom.

This is Miss M’s story.

She walked into the studio carrying years of teasing, self-doubt, and that too-familiar feeling of being told she didn’t fit the mold. Growing up as a tomboy, she was often ridiculed for even trying to be sexy or feminine. Somewhere along the way, she began to believe that maybe those parts of her didn’t belong.

But deep down, they did.

“Booking this session was my chance to be the sexy and feminine person I’ve always wanted to show,” she told us. “This was for me.”

The Fear That Didn’t Win

Like many of our clients, Miss M came in with nerves. The kind that whisper:

  • “Am I too much?”
  • “Am I not enough?”
  • “Will I even know how to pose?”

But none of those fears held up once the session began.

“I was scared of so many things… and all of them were wrong. I was nervous that I was too fat or wouldn’t feel sexy. But the team made me feel hot, sexy, and like I deserved to take up that space just as much as anyone else.”

The Power of Play

One of her favorite moments? Lingerie picking.

It wasn’t just about clothes—it was a moment of transformation. “It felt like shopping with friends,” she said. “We were laughing and smiling and just having fun.

And that’s something we believe deeply here at Revelry by AshLyn: feeling sexy doesn’t have to be serious. It can be joyful, playful, and light. It can be fun.

A Body Trusted

During her shoot, Miss M felt something click into place.

“I felt amazing. I wasn’t anxious. I trusted myself and my body in a way I’ve never felt before.”

That’s what happens when we allow ourselves to be seen—not just by a lens, but by our own eyes, in our own truth.

The After Effect

After her session, Miss M’s relationship with her body transformed.

“I view myself as a hot person now. I feel okay with the space I take up rather than trying to shrink myself.”

Can we get an amen?

She’s making self-care a regular act of love now—not just something saved for special occasions. And yes, she’s already planning her next session (not just as a model call this time).

Her Advice to You?

“If you’re nervous or scared, that’s okay. Feel those emotions. And then do it anyway. It’ll be so freeing and expressive. Think about what led you to this moment—and honor it.”

Final Thoughts from Miss M

When asked if there was anything we could improve, her answer gave us chills.

“Nothing. You genuinely made me feel so beautiful, sexy, and confident in ways I didn’t know I could feel about myself. I’d honestly do it again in a heartbeat.”


To every woman who’s ever felt like she wasn’t allowed to take up space—Miss M is proof that you can. You should. And when you do? You might just fall in love with yourself along the way.

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